“Thinking is difficult. That’s why most people judge.”She is so quiet; she must be nerdy. He rides bikes and has lots of tattoos; he must be a playboy. She has only male friends; she must have a loose character. She is so skinny; he is so fat. Blah blah. The taunts and mean comments go on and on. Judging means basically assuming things about other people based on certain exterior visible aspects. When you judge, you form an opinion about other people without knowing their stories and reasons. People judge each other all the time. We all are guilty of the same. Nobody can deny it (unless you are a saint!). Many people realize that judging others and being judged are toxic traits that need to be stopped in order to lead a better life. And such people refrain from consciously judging others. But some of us do so even without realizing that we are judging. But why are people so judgmental all the time? Why do they have to be mean and belittle someone else? Are they perfect in their own skins? There is one saying that I firmly believe in – One should judge people if they want to know what is wrong with themselves. This simply means that whatever you are saying about other people needs to be healed within you too. People are just projecting their own insecurities onto other people to feel better about themselves. Judgmental people are unhappy with their own lives. Their fears and insecurities surpass their inner happiness and sense of contentment. So they judge, mock and belittle people in order to have a sense of superiority.
